Recruiting Tactics
Over the 30+ years of my swinging career, I have been a member of a dozen swinger clubs. They all had various means of recruiting new members. Some tried hard to do so, others just waiting for new members to show up. Here were some of the recruitment tactics I remember.
Swinger magazines, and I guess these days, websites.
Word of mouth, obviously. Every swinger knows a couple who just might be into it. It can be tricky to recruit this way, but one approach is to bring it up not as "We do, do you want to?" but as "Have you heard of this? We've thought about it, but..."
We had (as I said before) a club member who was a divorce lawyer and he would sometimes recruit women to have divorce gangbang parties.
In one club we had a fertility doctor who would suggest to women who wanted to get pregnant from test tubes that it was much cheaper just to have volunteer swingers plant a seed. (I did a few.)
Several clubs had advertised offering the services for "private video production" on the "well will come to your home and discretely film you and your wife for your own later amusement." Once you got people comfortable screwing in front of strangers it was easier (sometimes) to get them to the next step.
Some clubs had active recruiters who took salsa dance classes (that's how we got recruited) or other sexy events.
Sometimes nudist clubs produced recruits, Sometimes they were horrified at the idea.
Strippers sometimes could be good recruits. It just depended. Some strippers were also prostitutes (bad idea) but some could not imagine screwing anybody but their husband/boyfriend. Those were worth a conversation.
One group offered "private stripper lessons" so women could strip for their husbands. Some of those women were found to have an interest in open minded sex.
One group had a serious program of recruiting and even training. They would have "new swinger orientation" days when new people who had not swung yet were brought into the club on a non-sex tour, to make it easier for them to get comfortable.
There were other ways. Maybe I'll remember some of them later.
Swinger magazines, and I guess these days, websites.
Word of mouth, obviously. Every swinger knows a couple who just might be into it. It can be tricky to recruit this way, but one approach is to bring it up not as "We do, do you want to?" but as "Have you heard of this? We've thought about it, but..."
We had (as I said before) a club member who was a divorce lawyer and he would sometimes recruit women to have divorce gangbang parties.
In one club we had a fertility doctor who would suggest to women who wanted to get pregnant from test tubes that it was much cheaper just to have volunteer swingers plant a seed. (I did a few.)
Several clubs had advertised offering the services for "private video production" on the "well will come to your home and discretely film you and your wife for your own later amusement." Once you got people comfortable screwing in front of strangers it was easier (sometimes) to get them to the next step.
Some clubs had active recruiters who took salsa dance classes (that's how we got recruited) or other sexy events.
Sometimes nudist clubs produced recruits, Sometimes they were horrified at the idea.
Strippers sometimes could be good recruits. It just depended. Some strippers were also prostitutes (bad idea) but some could not imagine screwing anybody but their husband/boyfriend. Those were worth a conversation.
One group offered "private stripper lessons" so women could strip for their husbands. Some of those women were found to have an interest in open minded sex.
One group had a serious program of recruiting and even training. They would have "new swinger orientation" days when new people who had not swung yet were brought into the club on a non-sex tour, to make it easier for them to get comfortable.
There were other ways. Maybe I'll remember some of them later.
10 años atrás
One of the clubs we were in had a gloryhole option for new recruits. It was at the clubhouse so it wasn't random guys, and everybody in the club had been tested. A new wife could be brought into the glory room without anyone seeing her, and she could leave that way if she wanted to. That way, she could have the full experience (unprotected fucking) without risk and without anybody seeing her. If she wanted, she could enter the main room (or come back another night). There was one wife who came to the glory room several times and got fucked but never came into the main club so nobody ever knew who she was and she never knew who she had fucked.
Whatever you do, don't invite her to an orgy where every guy in the room wants to drop a load in the new girl. A surprise gangbang on her first swinger night may send her screaming into the distance. Meet with just one or two couples. Screw your own wife in front of her. Ask her what she'd like to try (sucking a cock, getting eaten, riding a guy).
Gloryholes give a woman security and anonymity. She's not self-conscious about being naked in a crowd. The wall means she's safe from an aggressive man or crowd; if she doesn't like what's going on she just backs up. If she needs a break, she just backs up. If she decides not to become a swinger, she never has to meet somebody she fucked or sucked face to face.
If she does want to try a gangbang, work up to it slowly (two guys, then on another night three). She may want her husband there to hold her hand and be ready to step in if things go wrong. She might not want him there because she'd feel self conscious. She may want it to be in the dark. She might want the guys to get in bed with her one at a time with a bathroom break between them. Ask her at every step just what would be comfortable for her. One good way is for her to do a double gangbang with another woman. Perhaps with a veteran woman who has done several (if the new wife panics the guys aren't left hanging; the veteran will take them). Some might want to do their first gangbang with another woman who is also doing her first gangbang.
(The guys usually aren't reluctant but sometimes they need to get over performance issues by realizing that everybody else is too busy to be watching their performance.)
Did anyone ever get pregnant?
not related to my condition though but i enjoyed the innovative ideas