How to treat a submissive, A few guidelines

Whether you are in a marriage contract, long term commitment, or a brief encounter with a partner, the guidelines I propose will provide healthy steps on HOW TO TREAT A SUBMISSIVE.

1. Because the submissive is the complete counterpart to the Dominant, the sub should be allowed to express how the relationship should grow.
2. The submissive is in CONTROL. By choice, the sub has elected to be dominated.
3. The submissive should be treated as the crown jewel of the Dominant. Do not abuse, misuse, or subject the sub to situations that are uncomfortable, unless agreed upon (i.e. the sub may not like to be humiliated but does so because of the exhilarating effect).
4. Recognize that the sub’s desire is to please or to pleasure because this is the innate characteristic of the sub. (How many subs do you know that are in the workplace to provide service, i.e. teachers, secretaries, waitresses, etc.)
5. Provide the sub some “time-out”. A 24/7 sub can get “burn-out” so allow the sub some time to act normal to go out with friends, shopping, alone time, or whatever to rejuvenate.
6. Let the sub know how important she/he is to you in your relationship because the sub has relinquished power and authority to you.

If you liked this article, I have other ideas regarding the D/s prospective since me and my wife are in a similar relationship. Please comment on my profile if you would like me to explore this further.



Publicado por lmpx7777
7 años atrás
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that turns me on !
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666Rhino
para BiDaddysGirl : Goddam!!!  That's SO true.
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kantoanan4
I absolutely agree with what was written
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I agree with that.
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HerrPeterHH
that´s right
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lommeke
I totally agree on how to treat a sub
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I agree with all of the above, but probably need to emphasise the importance of agreeing a set of Hard and Soft Limits 
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Would like to learn a few things about how to treat a sub.. And of course hope to meet one someday soon.. I guess this is the start of my search.. Any suggestions?
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Although I don't think I'm a Dom. I agree with what you have posted.. I have this urge to let the beast out of me. I'm a nice guy, but...... Lol
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Wonderful, thanks so much for posting this! Alot of Doms have no idea what being a Dom really means and just use it sadly as an excuse to be abusive. :frowning:
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It’s so nice of you to have posted this. Thank you. 
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Jayboi-Ist
:heart:
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Master Dane! Ta ta ta taaaaa.
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Your rules are very appealing to us subs.....
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Love it..you are so cute !! now come and sit with me, we ll watch some videos...
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Thanks  for  this  great  information, I   have  taken  it  to  heart, and  would  love  some  more  tips  on  the  D/s prospective.
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nice . I like your idea. masters should understand the condition of a sub. because she is taking pain to give her master's pleasure.
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pjny21
hmm
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No podría estar más de acuerdo!
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It’s very interesting that you can do this with your wife.  How fortunate for you both.
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You sound like a considerate mistress too xx
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Couldn’t agree more !
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Good advice, after all it is about enjoyment, isn't it. pm me with more guidelines/advice etc.......
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beenthere
Can't agree more.  It really is a contract  a sub and a dom.  Seriously I have had subs tell me they will do anything to please their dom.  I just blame that on ignorance.  I say to them you will eat my shit and lick their own period blood the story changes on what they will do.  I never had one that said they would do it and I am not into that either.  You have to have rules and boundaries for both.
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RobertoPolloni
Agree
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very Great i will show it to my superior wife
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In submission there is trust. In domination there is responsibility. in both there is love.
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buttlerjohn
You are so right !
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Sub lesbian pain slut..no blood no scat only limits..love electro play.
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lmpx7777
...and why is that?
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